{"id":14,"date":"2023-01-14T22:43:50","date_gmt":"2023-01-15T04:43:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/?p=14"},"modified":"2025-10-11T07:55:20","modified_gmt":"2025-10-11T12:55:20","slug":"best-life-dream-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/2023\/01\/14\/best-life-dream-story\/","title":{"rendered":"Best Life Dream Story"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Have you ever had a dream that, upon waking, was so strongly imprinted upon you, that months later it was impacting your thoughts and life? Some people believe that such dreams represent<br>God talking to us.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My whole idea of living my best life came from such a dream. And, yes, it may have been God<br>talking to me as I haven\u2019t been able to let go of the concept. As I have shared my thoughts with<br>others, they, too, have embraced this direction.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Dream<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>My dream was sometime in 2022. I didn\u2019t record the date as, at the time, I was unaware of what<br>it might morph into. The dream was about my mother, leading Christian female speaker&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/florence.littauer\">Florence<br>Littauer<\/a>. Like most dreams, I do not remember all the details, but she was in heaven. I clearly<br>recognized that she was my mother\u2014though she was not the elderly woman I cared for in her<br>last couple years of life. Nor was she the larger-than-life stage presence many people remember<br>her as. It is hard to describe, but I was left feeling that the person in my dream was my mother at<br>her \u201cbest life.\u201d Though I have no biblical backing for this, I woke up thinking that when we are<br>in heaven, the person we will be will not be us as teenagers or elderly folks in our last days, but<br>whoever we were when we were at our best. Then I had an epiphany: when I am in heaven, I<br>want to be who I am now\u2014because I am living my best life! This me\u2014the sixty-four-year-old<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/victorioushomes\/\">remodeling contractor<\/a> living in Lubbock, Texas, <a href=\"https:\/\/thepersonalities.com\/marita-littauer-and-chuck-tedder\">married to Chuck Tedder<\/a>. The one who has lots<br>of girlfriends who enrich my life. The Marita who is living a life she never planned for or<br>expected\u2014a life that is so different from who I was for most of my adult life. The reinvented<br>Marita. Not the semi-famous author of 20 books who regularly stood on the stage in front of<br>hundreds of people and occasionally thousands. Not the TV and radio talk show guest. Not the<br>leader of Christian women.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Best-Life focus<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I began to incorporate the \u201cliving my best life\u201d focus into my conversations and my Facebook<br>posts. When asked: \u201cHow are you?\u201d I surprised grocery store clerks and food servers, just to<br>name a few, by saying: \u201cI\u2019m living my best life\u201d\u2014though I couldn\u2019t really articulate exactly<br>what that was or meant. I just knew it to be true.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Enter Ms Senior America<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A few months after my dream, in late October 2022, I got a call from&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/profile.php?id=1422522647\">Debbie Robbins<\/a>. I knew<br>her from my Christian speaker\/writer life and, through Facebook, we\u2019d stayed in touch. During<br>the waning days of my mother\u2019s life, Debbie even helped me with the verbiage for the new<br>website I was creating to carry on my mother\u2019s legacy:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/thepersonalities.com\/\">ThePersonalities.com<\/a>. Debbie called me<br>to tell me she\u2019d just been crowned&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/l.facebook.com\/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.mssenioramericallc.com%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR0UbbrWcJnCxQ3I8uFq4bUMnYrM5ExBcYNumLugoHZSDrDXheAnkR2wh9I&amp;h=AT1lsimbBavaX0p1zw0E0vdTX2g5U4qBTUD0mYtp_quRRon8BGrCYsapmmGkPHl6mx4r6dEnietVPT7u5C-srvCw3fGZM0KHwsHXnVtJWoEcnH8fisX5l2WxEQPftUmxwbM\">Ms. Senior America<\/a>. She said God had given her a platform<br>and she felt she needed to do something with it. She asked for my advice. Should she write a<br>book? I discouraged the book idea as by the time it was written and published, her reign would<br>be over. I encouraged a blog and told her about my dream. We both got excited about the idea of<br>encouraging senior women to live their best life! The brainstorming was fast and furious. This is<br>the first thing in the Christian\/personal growth arena that excited me in nearly twenty years. We<br>hung up from the call and did nothing about it. Life went on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">My Sister Came Onboard<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In early November, I enjoyed a Hawaiian vacation with my sister:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/laurenbrgs\">Lauren Littauer Briggs<\/a>\u2014the<br>first we\u2019d ever taken together. As we got reacquainted, I told her about my best-life dream and<br>realization and my conversation with Debbie, about the potential for a blog\u2014maybe a podcast<br>and\/or YouTube channel. Lauren, too, embraced the idea\u2014so much so that she quickly reached<br>out to her son and had him purchase the domain name \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/LivingYourBestLife60Plus.com\">LivingYourBestLife60Plus.com<\/a>.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">We Teamed Up<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Over the Thanksgiving holiday, Lauren, Debbie, and I had a conference call about the potential<br>project. We were reinvigorated that we needed to do something with \u201cliving your best life.\u201d Then<br>Christmas got in the way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">More Encouragement<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In early January, my friend Patti came to visit from Albuquerque\u2014where I used to live. During<br>the few days she was here, we had many discussions. One was about her sister who had moved<br>to a new town and didn\u2019t have any friends. Patti asked how I\u2019d developed such a great group of<br>girlfriends in my new hometown of Lubbock. We talked. I realized what I shared with her was<br>really a blog post! I told her about my best-life dream.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Next, I reached out to the web designer with whom I\u2019d Zoomed in early December. And here we<br>are.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Best-Life Project is Born<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We don\u2019t know where this is going, but we invite you to follow along! We want to address a<br>variety of topics relevant to those of us women who are over 60\u2014living in the sweet spot of life<br>where we have the intersection of health, time, and resources. We plan to involve others from<br>our Christian speaker\/writer network. Please sign up to receive updates and follow our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/profile.php?id=100087919854157\">Facebook<br>page<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">New to The Best-Life Project?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Please read this foundational post:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/2023\/02\/18\/best-life-definition\/\">Best-Life Definition<\/a><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Read More from This Author:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/author\/marita-littauer-tedder\/\">Marita Littauer Tedder<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"960\" height=\"950\" src=\"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/marita-2022.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-238\" style=\"width:148px;height:147px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/marita-2022.jpg 960w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/marita-2022-300x297.jpg 300w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/marita-2022-768x760.jpg 768w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/marita-2022-850x841.jpg 850w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Marita Littauer Tedder<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><em>Marita has spent the majority of her adult life working with women\u2014helping them improve relationships, achieve their speaking and writing dreams, and being the best version of themselves they can possibly be. The author of 20 books, this Living Our Best Life Project is her newest effort\u2014through which she hopes to challenge women to be fulfilled where they are.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had an epiphany: when I am in heaven, I want to be who I am now\u2014because I am living my best life! This me\u2014the sixty-four-year-old remodeling contractor living in Lubbock, Texas, married to Chuck Tedder. The one who has lots of girlfriends who enrich my life. 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