{"id":1908,"date":"2025-04-02T13:01:53","date_gmt":"2025-04-02T18:01:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/?p=1908"},"modified":"2025-04-02T20:36:00","modified_gmt":"2025-04-03T01:36:00","slug":"helping-the-young-people-in-our-lives-find-their-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/2025\/04\/02\/helping-the-young-people-in-our-lives-find-their-way\/","title":{"rendered":"Helping the Young People in Our Lives Find Their Way"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"887\" src=\"http:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_130815-1024x887.jpg\" alt=\"three smiling women on a cruise\" class=\"wp-image-1912\" style=\"width:293px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_130815-1024x887.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_130815-300x260.jpg 300w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_130815-768x665.jpg 768w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_130815-1536x1331.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_130815-850x736.jpg 850w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_130815-1320x1144.jpg 1320w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_130815.jpg 1967w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For the second year in a row, I am enjoying a trip with my friends on <a href=\"americancruiselines.com\">American Cruise Lines<\/a> (ACL). Once again, I am impressed with the staff. They are all kind and gracious\u2014including the housekeeping staff. I have, however, due to meal times, had the most interaction with the serving staff. Most are young. Many were at an in between place when they decided to apply for a job with ACL. Most told me that this job allowed them to save money and see places they\u2019d never have seen otherwise. Mikayla told me she has worked as a server for many years (her father was a chef) and she has a bit of wanderlust\u2014which made this a perfect fit. Others talked about saving money or paying off student debt.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"927\" src=\"http:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_185746-1024x927.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1931\" style=\"width:388px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_185746-1024x927.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_185746-300x272.jpg 300w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_185746-768x695.jpg 768w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_185746-1536x1391.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_185746-850x770.jpg 850w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_185746-1320x1195.jpg 1320w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_185746.jpg 1821w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On each cruise, as I have interacted with these wonderful young people, I have been struck with what a great opportunity this is\u2014especially for those who are at an in between place in life. This is true even for those who are a bit older. I\u2019ve thought: \u201cMaybe women my age have a grandchild (or great niece or nephew) for whom a job on ACL would be a perfect fit.\u201d But who thinks of this? It is not like they\u2019d be working for some foreign conglomerate. ACL is family owned and all American.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The servers work on a 28 week contract and it is not unreasonable to be able to save up $15,000 during the contract\u2014after all, they have no expenses. Food, housing (in dorm style rooms), and uniforms are included. There\u2019s not much opportunity to spend. Though one did tell me that she ordered way too much Door Dash in her first few weeks on the ship. She quickly learned that was a bad way to use up her paycheck and corrected her ways.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1015\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_183144-1015x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1932\" style=\"width:289px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_183144-1015x1024.jpg 1015w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_183144-297x300.jpg 297w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_183144-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_183144-768x775.jpg 768w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_183144-300x303.jpg 300w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_183144-850x858.jpg 850w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_183144-1320x1332.jpg 1320w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/20250402_183144.jpg 1406w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1015px) 100vw, 1015px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While the financial benefits are good, the work is long. Servers work three meals a day, seven days a week. They do have several hours off each afternoon between lunch and dinner. Many use that time to nap. Some go ashore and catch some of the sites. One gal I talked to is studying to be a nurse and she uses that time for her online school work. They do get paid time and a half for extra hours\u2014which can add up quickly. They must also be flexible and fill in where they are needed. This morning, I didn\u2019t see one of the servers. I asked where he was. \u201cDoing the dishes,\u201d was the answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I asked Jay, who has been on the job for two weeks, if he would recommend it to his friends, he quickly responded: \u201cYes, of course! But they have to be willing to work hard.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Both Jay (29) and Mikayla (26) have been on board the same amount of time. They explained that the training takes place in Salt Lake City, Utah, with a simulated ship experience. ACL pays for everything during training\u2014including airfare and lodging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some of the servers have college degrees, others have some, others no college at all\u2014but most do have some serving experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">During the 28-week contract, staff can take up to 3 weeks off. Though, upon return, they will likely be assigned to a different ship and crew. It just depends on the cruise lines needs at the time. Bre, a 23 year old from Michigan with a degree in hospitality who is nearing the end of her 28 weeks, told me that if servers make it past the first two weeks, they usually stay. For those who make it through their full contract, there is a bonus and ACL pays for the flight home. Those who leave early are on their own once they walk off the ship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Those working on board have different reasons for choosing ACL and different career goals. Bre, with the hospitality degree, hopes to secure a job in management at a motor speedway. She has worked on a local ferry back home. Jay, who is from Los Angeles, is saving money to open a restaurant in Jamaica with his family. For Mikayla, she was looking for a better server position using the website <a href=\"https:\/\/www.indeed.com\/\">Indeed<\/a>. The ACL opportunity popped up and, on an impulse, she decided to apply. For now, she\u2019s enjoying saving money, meeting new people and traveling\u2014though she is an actress and a model with agency representation. Andrea is currently serving as a deckhand, she\u2019s the only female on that crew. Her goal is to be a ship captain. For those who want it, ACL offers opportunities for advancement. But for those on the entry level 28-week contract, they cannot come back to the same position. They can, however, move up. The Restaurant Manager, worked previously as a waitress and bartender and started with ACL as a server. Our Hotel Manager Dylan also started as a server.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I hope, as you have read, I have piqued your interest for that young person in your family. Share this story with them. Send them to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aclcareers.com\/shipboardapply\">ACL website<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.indeed.com\/\">Indeed.com<\/a>. You just don\u2019t know, this could be led to him or her living their best life!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Tedder-108copy_pp-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Blonde woman in orange shirt\" class=\"wp-image-858\" style=\"width:194px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Tedder-108copy_pp-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Tedder-108copy_pp-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Tedder-108copy_pp-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Tedder-108copy_pp-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Tedder-108copy_pp-1365x2048.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Tedder-108copy_pp-300x450.jpg 300w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Tedder-108copy_pp-850x1275.jpg 850w, https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Tedder-108copy_pp-scaled.jpg 1707w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Marita Littauer Tedder<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Marita Littauer Tedder<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Marita Littauer Tedder has spent the majority of her adult life working with women\u2014helping them improve relationships, achieve their speaking and writing dreams, and being the best version of themselves they can possibly be. The author of 20 books, this Living Our Best Life Project is her newest effort\u2014through which she hopes to challenge women to be fulfilled where they are.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On each cruise, as I have interacted with these wonderful young people, I have been struck with what a great opportunity this is\u2014especially for those who are at an in between place in life. This is true even for those who are a bit older. I\u2019ve thought: \u201cMaybe women my age have a grandchild (or great niece or nephew) for whom a job on ACL would be a perfect fit.\u201d But who thinks of this? It is not like they\u2019d be working for some foreign conglomerate. 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