{"id":2745,"date":"2026-02-27T11:37:59","date_gmt":"2026-02-27T17:37:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/?p=2745"},"modified":"2026-02-27T11:47:55","modified_gmt":"2026-02-27T17:47:55","slug":"loveuary-my-valentine-for-every-woman-living-her-best-life-sixty-plus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livingyourbestlife60plus.com\/blog\/2026\/02\/27\/loveuary-my-valentine-for-every-woman-living-her-best-life-sixty-plus\/","title":{"rendered":"Loveuary: My Valentine for Every Woman Living Her Best Life Sixty Plus"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

February is almost over, and with it the Hallmark Channel\u2019s \u201cLoveuary\u201d\u2014a month dedicated to celebrating love. Inspired by this theme, I want to extend my own Loveuary message to every woman who is part of our\u00a0Living Your Best Life Sixty Plus<\/em>\u00a0community. Whether you are a contributor or a reader, you bring wisdom, joy, and encouragement to all of us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As we navigate the sometimes predictable\u2014and sometimes daunting\u2014realities of senior living, I am continually uplifted by the stories shared here. Your honesty, humor, and faith have brightened my spirit and strengthened my resolve. This past year, your posts have been especially meaningful for this season of life. I often pass them along intentionally to friends who need just the right word at just the right time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recently, I celebrated a milestone birthday: 65. Entering the world of Social Security and Medicare has been a new adventure. While I wish I could offer a tutorial, I instead encourage you to seek out local experts, as my husband did for us, who can guide you through these transitions. It is an interesting and sometimes overwhelming phase. I\u2019m reminded of the women I admired in my twenties\u2014those who lived with grace and purpose. Now, I hope to be that woman for others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For those who know my story, you may remember that I became a mother at 44, after being told it would never happen. That journey was a rollercoaster filled with heartbreak, hope, and ultimately joy. Today, my son is a 20-year-old college student, and motherhood continues to evolve. I laugh at myself for missing the days when my life wasn\u2019t entirely my own. Yet, thanks to recent Best-Life posts, I\u2019m rediscovering myself and embracing this new chapter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My heart was especially tender this morning during my quiet time with the Lord. I am always amazed at how He confirms what He is impressing upon my heart\u2014often through the simplest reminders. As I read and reflected, I came across a scripture I had highlighted some time ago, complete with notes in the margin meant for \u201clater.\u201d As I reread it today, it felt as though the Lord was softly saying:\u00a0\u201cThis is for now.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That moment took me back to 2023, when I had the privilege of serving as Ms. Senior America and attending the Ms. Senior Michigan Pageant. One of the quiet blessings of that experience was Sandy, the florist\u2014a devoted volunteer who gives her time, talent, and treasure to make the event beautiful. Sandy is also a woman of deep faith. When she presented me with a gorgeous bouquet, we quickly discovered our shared love for the Lord and formed an immediate, kindred connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sandy shared a practice that deeply moved me. Each morning during her devotional time, she asks the Lord to show her one person who would benefit from the scripture she has studied. She writes the verse in a note and waits\u2014trusting God to reveal who should receive it. That day, I was the blessed recipient. At the time, neither of us knew I would soon be entering the tender and sometimes unsettling season of an empty nest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This morning, as I reread that same passage, it spoke to me once again\u2014perhaps even more powerfully than before. I pray it will encourage you as well, especially verse 14. Psalm 92:12\u201315 says:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe righteous will flourish like a palm tree, They will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; Planted in the house of the Lord, They will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age<\/strong>. They will stay fresh and green, Proclaiming, \u2018The Lord is upright; He is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in Him.\u2019\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What a promise. What a reassurance. The bottom line is this: God isn\u2019t finished with me\u2014or you\u2014yet.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am especially grateful to Monette Sedberry for reminding me to rekindle romance with my husband, and to Candy Arrington for teaching me to savor every day with those we love. Marita Littauer Tedder\u2019s recent post on \u201cHappiness<\/a>\u201d inspired me to create a playlist\u2014\u201cWhistle While You Work\u201d<\/em>\u00a0sits at the top, because I\u2019m always on the move. And Christy Largent\u2019s \u201c26 in 26 Challenge<\/a>\u201d encouraged me to try new things this year. I don\u2019t believe in retirement\u2014only\u00a0re-firement<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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This year, I have pursued opportunities as a music professional, interviewed for a part-time adjunct vocal professor role, and even co-hosted a Christian conservative TV\/radio show called\u00a0Kentucky\u2019s Voice<\/a><\/em>. I am passionate about mentoring young women and am determined to finish my first devotional book,\u00a0Thirty Days to the Crown<\/em>. I don\u2019t know where all of this will lead, but I am deeply grateful for the encouragement of this community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So whether you are a contributor or a reader, please accept this as my Loveuary Valentine to you. You have blessed me, and I hope this message blesses you in return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A friend loves at all times.<\/em> (Proverbs 17:17)
Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.<\/em> (Proverbs 31:30)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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New to The Best-Life Project?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Please read these foundational posts:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Best Life Dream Story<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Best-Life Definition<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Read More from This Author:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Debbie Robbins<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Debbie was honored to serve as Ms. Senior America 2023. She holds a degree in Vocal Performance and has performed across the continental U.S. and abroad. She\u2019s also a talent and interview coach for Miss America Scholarship Organization contestants, high school and college bound performing arts students, and conservative political candidates. Debbie is married to Scott Robbins. They have one son, Jackson, born when Debbie was 44. He is now a Freshman at the University of Louisville.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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