I am a news junkie. For most of my adult life, I have had 24-hours news playing in the background. I seldom actually sit and watch it, but it is on. I come by it naturally as my mother, Florence Littauer, was the same—though for her it was news magazines. She subscribed to both TIME and Newsweek for as long as I can remember. She frequently used clippings from them in her speeches.
However, over the past several weeks, I couldn’t watch. The nonstop coverage of the California wildfires was just too much for me.

For most of my pre-teen and teen years, through Jr. high and high school, my family lived in the foothills of Southern California. More specifically, San Bernardino. Our home was the very last one in the development. It had fabulous views and looked out over olive trees to an undeveloped mountain that changed colors as the sun set. Living there felt like paradise. I loved riding my motorcycle to the end of our driveway and onto the fire trails at the end of the cul-de-sac. I spent hours touring the surrounding terrain. These trails had been put in to aid the fire fighters when, and if, one of Southern California’s frequent fires broke out.
And they did. There were several times in the years that we lived there that we had to evacuate as we watched the fire come down the mountainside across from us. We had a redwood deck beside our pool. It hung out over the sloped land beside the pool. The overhang of that deck was singed from the flames. I can clearly hear the firefighters telling my parents: “If we can save your house, we can save the neighborhood.”

When the fires came, we gathered up our prized possessions—which in my case included my pet mice—and loaded up into the car. My mother drove us to someone’s house where we would be safe. Meanwhile, my father stayed behind. Men from the church joined him. I can still picture driving away seeing my father and the other men on the roof with garden hoses.
One such time was the fall of 1973. My father was at the house when the firefighters wanted him to leave. He claimed: “the Lord won’t let my house burn.” The story was featured on the front page of the San Bernardino Sun-Telegram with the headline: “‘The Lord Won’t Let My House Burn.’ It didn’t.” That year our family’s Christmas letter included a copy of that article and a picture of me with my mice. (While I can see that “letter” clearly in my mind, I searched for it today and cannot get my hands on it. I know I have it somewhere.) (Please note: I am not in any way suggesting that those whose homes burn in any fire, don’t have enough faith. This was just our story. The thing about faith is that we can’t fully explain it—which is what makes it faith, not science.)
During the time we lived there, the firefighters’ predictions were accurate. They were able to save our house, and the neighborhood survived. Last September, my husband and I were visiting my sister, Lauren Briggs, who still lives in the general area. (Interestingly, she lives in a neighborhood with lovely views and flammable brush behind her house.) Chuck had never seen the house my parents built and I wanted to show it to him. It was still standing. But many others in the neighborhood had burned down.



Living in that area, we did have family friends who lost their homes to forest fires. Fire is very real to me.
In the early 90’s, my first husband and I moved to New Mexico. I lived there for about 20 years—the second half of which we lived in the mountains outside of Albuquerque. We had lovely views but were always aware that fire was a very real danger. The home we lived in was built out of solid block and had a metal roof. It was designed to be fireproof. Forest fires never came near our house, but I remember worrying as we saw smoke fill the air from a fire some miles away.

For years, I’ve lived knowing what I would grab if we had to evacuate.
With this background, you can understand why I couldn’t watch, nonstop, the recent California wildfires. It hit too close to home. Though, I heard the stories and followed the devastation. I was shocked to see entire neighborhoods destroyed. These were not people who lived on the edge of a forest. They lived in urban communities. This should not have happened. But it did.
There will be many discussions about what went wrong. There will be lots of finger pointing. And none of that will bring back people’s homes. But every time these fire storms happen, I am reminded about an experience I had learning about forest management. With President Trump’s visit to Southern California a few days ago, a spotlight was, once again, placed on forest management. As a result, I want to share the following with you. I realize this is a bit off-topic for The Best-Life Project, here it is anyway.

I spent a decade doing energy advocacy, 2006-2016. During that time. I wrote an op-ed a week that was published in newspapers in the oil-rich regions of New Mexico and Texas as well as in conservative news sites such as Townhall.com. I also wrote a book called Energy Freedom. I was sure I had written about this particular experience before. I quote it often. But I’ve searched and cannot find it anywhere. So, I believe, this is the first time I’ve written this.
As a part of my work in New Mexico’s oil patch, I had the opportunity to get to know Congressman Steve Pearce. He was aware of my writing skills and asked me to help him write his biography. While I did not end up being involved in the final writing and publication, I did spend an informative week in 2010 travelling the state with him and his State Director.
During that trip, he was scheduled to meet with the President of the Mescalero Apache Tribe. Of course, I couldn’t be part of that meeting. Congressman Pearce arranged for me to meet with the tribe’s forester. She taught me the importance of forest management.
While the numbers I am quoting may not be 100% accurate, as they are from my memory, they are conceptually correct.
She told me that on the state and federal lands, they manage for habitat preservation—which in New Mexico meant the spotted owl (an issue I’d written about frequently). But on the Mescalero lands, they managed for the health of the forest. She explained that in New Mexico, the average rainfall is enough to support about 50 trees per acre. But, because the state and federal governments did not allow any logging, the forests were overgrown with about 250 trees per acre. As a result, the trees were unhealthy; they were unable to fight off disease or pests. New Mexico’s forests were infested with bark beetles. In contrast, on the Mescalero lands, they managed for the health of the forest—keeping them thinned to a number (50) that allowed them to be healthy. If they found a spotted owl habitat, they kept an area surrounding it undisturbed.
This management meant that when an inevitable forest fire started, it blazed through the state and federal lands as an extremely hot “crown fire.” But when it hit the Mescalero lands, it “laid down” and became a manageable grass fire.
We could see the difference as we drove through the mountains of New Mexico.
Like all of us, I am devastated by the apocalyptic loss of life and property in Southern California. But as the conversations over cause happen throughout the next many weeks and months, I hope that this time, with this President, something will finally change in our country; that they will manage the land in a way that protects the people who live there.

Marita has spent the majority of her adult life working with women—helping them improve relationships, achieve their speaking and writing dreams, and being the best version of themselves they can possibly be. The author of 20 books, this Living Our Best Life Project is her newest effort—through which she hopes to challenge women to be fulfilled where they are.
Fascinating Marita! Marshall has talked about this; I want him to read your article! I imagine the fear you felt, especially as a child, was horrifying. But interestingly, by you riding your motorcycle on the fire trails, I surmise, that in some strange way, it helped that fear not be embedded too deeply. I lived in Nebraska many years growing up and we had tornadoes occasionally. I remember as a child being fearful, but my parents helped me face those fears by educating us kids about tornadoes and what to do in case of one and we were prepared as a family. I feel for those who suffered loss in California, but like you said, the responsibilities of those in charge were not handled correctly. Many mistakes were made, but things can only improve (because of those mistakes) from this point forward!
Excellent article! We have friends who live in the San Diego area. In a recent conversation with my sister, they shared that they were fine. However, they keep two bags handy at all times. One bag for absolute crucial items they were to need in the event of a disaster of some type. The other bag is for the next vital items they might need in the event of an evacuation. I am not sure I could live in this environment. However, living in the mid west, we are thankful for our basement where we could escape to in the event of a weather “nightmare”. It is almost like, you have to think the worst and prove yourself wrong.
Thank you Marita! When Bob and I lived in Lake Arrowhead for 28 yrs we saw a few fires— the Panorama fire in 1980, and were evacuated in October of 2003 for 2 weeks along with family and friends all over California (arson for most) and bark beetles had attacked our pine trees leaving them orange,dry and tinder for the fire! Terrible memories of our mountain on fire! We moved out of California in 2004 and fires were a big reason among others in a changing political environment— a gorgeous state ruined in so many ways even then— maybe Steve Garvey former Dodger could run for governor!! Praying for California!!
I agree, a gorgeous state ruined in so many ways.
Marita, thank you for sharing this! I remember when your family evacuated. Pam, I remember when Lake Arrowhead burned. Seems I remember that Barbara Buehler’s (CLASS) house in Arrowhead burned years ago. We now live in south Orange County where fire is always a threat; neighboring homes have evacuated a few times in the last five years since we moved back here. My Facebook page had pictures I took of the Saddleback mountain peak and ridge glowing red in the dark, reflecting on the lake where we live, a surreal beautiful horror. The arrogance and insane ideological positions of those in charge of forest management may finally be confronted successfully with President Trump. We watched his meeting last week with representatives of the devastated fire areas and felt some hope. As I read your words and sense the PTSD you carry from your fire experiences, the psychological impact of current fires on residents is immeasurable. BTW, my husband fought fire with the US Forest Service, Dalton Hotshots out of Glendora, for two fire seasons so we have always paid close attention to the fear and helplessness that fires evoke. And thank you for sharing the wisdom of the tribal approaches to forest management. Prayers that Wisdom finally has her day with decision makers in California even if via Executive purse string demands.
Yes, a sense of PTSD is why I couldn’t watch the nonstop news coverage. I agree, I pray that wisdom finally as her day–well put.
Dear Marita,
Like you, I am a news junkie. Back in September of 2024, I happened to see an entire speech and Q & A that then Candidate Trump (45), gave from the foothills of mountains in California. It was one of the best and most informative speeches and Q & A exchanges (REAL questions) I had heard him give pertaining not only to energy, but also about Forest Fire prevention and his deep concerns and prior warnings he had given to government leadership about the water flow situation in California. I remember feeling ominous while he was speaking and praying that these issues would get fixed….ASAP! When the news of the fires began and people were doing what they could to fight the flames, and when Lauren posted her status as “safe” on FB, I then remembered getting to hear your family’s story and your dad’s declaration, told in a talk given by your mom, of this miracle. Reading your account was fascinating, brought me right into the fear and wonder of a young person, and brings deep insight on how important it is for us to do our due diligence, placing people in ALL levels of government leadership that are qualified and experienced enough and with COMMON SENSE to actually do the jobs they hold, protecting Americans and our country. I don’t mean to be “political” but incompetence has pervaded every area of government all across our country. The fires in Maui two years ago, hit home to me because my husband and I were married there. Thankfully, the chapel we were married in and the resort where we spent part of our honeymoon survived, but nonetheless, the same heartbreak I felt for those precious people is magnified by a thousand watching a part of California needlessly burn to the ground. THANK YOU FOR the up close view of how this feels to Californians. We need to be reminded daily that life is short and unpredictable so we will choose to live our best lives! I am confident that things will get better and that common sense is being awakened across our land. My heart aches and I continue to pray for those who’ve lost “everything” and I pray that their lives can be restored to the best possible situation. But as women of faith, we know this is not our forever home and I can live now and dream of that “sweet by and by,,,”
Marita We had a home 6 miles south of Flagstaff, Arizona. There has been much thinning and cleaning out of the forest around the area which has truly helped with fires. We were evacuated once, and the “prior proper planning” of the forest helped immensely.
Currently, I am watching for each of the two candidates who have announced they are running for Governor of Arizona, to state what their plan encompassing fire fighting, and fire prevention is. I would urge that we start asking now, before summer, and before the next election what anyone running for election is planning as it should push the issue to the forefront, and then action.
I totally agree!