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We’ve STILL Got It!

Posted on February 7, 2023February 18, 2023 by Pam Stephens
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As Baby Boomers, we have collectively set quite a few trends and even a few fads. Because our ranks are many, Boomers have lined the pockets of many a toy maker with the likes of hula hoops, Davey Crockett coonskin caps, Tiny Tears dolls, and Tinker Toys; and many a gal my age had a poodle skirt or two and watched the phenomenon of American Bandstand, oohing and aawing over the latest teen idols and their hits.

Boomers: Doing it Again

It seems as Boomers, our generation is doing it again: We are taking the “tired” out of Retired! We are all just too young to retire! Yes, we want to “downsize” into condos or town homes and get a motorhome or fifth-wheel, but Pah-leeze, don’t call it retirement! That equates with old and tired, or sick and tired, and after all, we are just looking forward to traveling, and spending our kids inheritance!  As for retirement centers, phooey! We are much happier if you call it active-adult living with a country club atmosphere! There are about 24 million of us active adults here in the good old U.S. of A, which means about 9 percent of our population! And guess what, as all of us Baby Boomers age, that will expand to roughly 40 million by the year 2024!  And honey, we are mobile! We are well-educated, affluent, and concerned about maintaining our health (in between Krispy Kremes and our Mocha Lattes).

Active Adults

Now we are lining different pockets; those of the active-adult building industry! Developers have catered to our whims of wanting communities which offer lots of activities, a simple, stress-free lifestyle, while owning our own individual homes, often without having to maintain and garden the yards! No two-stories for us! Give us plenty of living area, a great-room rather than a formal living room, with a split bedroom plan that allows our guests to be on the opposite side of the house for privacy! And we want beautiful surrounds: set in the woodlands, or waterfront areas, or at least with a golf course view or a lake/waterscape to look out at! Be sure to give us a lodge to gather in, a card room to play canasta; or how about some craft lessons, tap lessons, two-step or line dancing? 

The boomer guys want a woodshop, perfectly maintained and well-oiled for making those grandson’s wooden airplanes and trains! Boomer gals want to create, so give us ceramics classes, oil painting or watercolor lessons, or quilting classes, thank you, kindly! Of course, it must have a state-of- the-art gym where we can sweat to the oldies with Jane and learn that new thing called Pilates. And to keep us safe, we’d like a gated, guarded environment to keep the owners and boomers away from those who would just like to browse…. Oh and by the way, can we have a spot to store our motorhome, 5th-wheel or toy-hauler?   Because several times a year we want to heed the call of the open road—I  can almost hear old Willie singing to me now,  “on the road again, just can’t wait to get on the road, again!”

Yes, we may be of the age to retire, but to us that just means it’s bedtime!


Pam Stephens

Pam’s background has involved teaching, whether at women’s retreats, Bible Studies, or Personality Seminars. She also owned her own businesses: one in the medical field and then in Real Estate, which she did with her husband Bob. They have just moved to a condo in Branson, Missouri, and look forward to more adventures! Pam and Bob have loved their life experiences—wherever they took them—from the States and Canada, to a cruise in Tahiti—Living Their Best Life has always been their goal!

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9 thoughts on “We’ve STILL Got It!”

  1. Barbara A Bueler says:
    February 8, 2023 at 3:39 pm

    My friend Pam, You ‘nailed’ it! Thanks for sharing such a good and comprehensive read! Love, Barbara A Bueler
    barbuel7@yahoo.com

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  2. Jennifer Stephens says:
    February 8, 2023 at 4:29 pm

    That sounds like fun! I am looking forward to arts and crafts and travel.

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  3. Barbara A Bueler says:
    February 8, 2023 at 5:04 pm

    Pam, You ‘nailed’ it! Thanks for sharing this encouraging blog!
    Barbara A Bueler

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  4. Nancy says:
    February 9, 2023 at 8:16 pm

    Gosh, Pam, you hit all the high notes on getting older! Don’t forget about those precious grands that we get to spoil and send back to their parents! We raised our kids and now we get to play a bit with all the amenities that we can afford. We are surely blessed beyond measure.

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    1. Pam Stephens says:
      February 14, 2023 at 12:42 pm

      Thank you Nancy—take every moment as a gift!

      Reply
  5. Monette Sedberry says:
    February 12, 2023 at 9:42 am

    I love how you talk about not using the word retirement. You are so right, we now have time and freedom, we should stay healthy and active and take advantage of this amazing time in our lives!

    Reply
    1. Pam Stephens says:
      February 14, 2023 at 12:44 pm

      Glad you can relate! And Amen to what you said about taking advantage of this time! 🙂

      Reply
  6. Becky Beck says:
    February 13, 2023 at 4:30 pm

    While I still “feel” 40- the truth of my Actual age does resonate to much of what you’ve described. I’m going to keep my dancing shoes at the front of my closet and make an intentional effort to Dance the rest of my life.

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  7. Pam Stephens says:
    February 13, 2023 at 5:17 pm

    Love that Becky! Dance all the way!!😊

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