Encouraging and equipping women over 60 to live their best life!
When I went through my divorce, Valentine’s Day was one of the most dreaded days of the year. I hated it. The endless scenarios of people falling in love or frolicking on sunbaked beaches all confirmed that I was a failure. During that season of loss and grief my friends tried to tell me I…
If we evaluate where we are and where we want to be and get really clear, we can change an area of our life. And just like we didn’t get the results we have overnight, the new results we want, will not happen overnight. The new routine and the new habits we create, and do consistently, will bring new results.
I didn’t want to sit still just because I’ve hit a certain number on the calendar. My heart was now bursting with more new vision, goals and dreams than ever. I no longer worried about the days left to live but living the days I have in front of me.
The challenge is to thrive in the new, often unwanted, role. These changes may include divorce, death of a spouse or child, a job loss, a catastrophic weather event, or more. I find that if we are open to going through the door before us and give it all we’ve got, we can excel. I’ve also found that past experiences often prepare us for the next chapter—even though we may not see it until later.
The unfaithful captain who abandoned his ship is like a divorcing spouse who caused all manner of evils in the family and community; the husband who gave his life so that his wife could live is the beautiful image of Christ dying for His bride.
